Blessing the Children III
mandag, 30. juni, 2008Lesson 1 Parents in the training of your children study the lessons that God has given in nature.
Biblical evidence
Mark 10:15-16 15 “Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it.” 16 And He took them up in His arms, put His hands on them, and blessed them.
Practical application for 2008
So how may parents give their children every advantage that the children may form characters after the smilitude of the character of Christ? There are four basic principles to consider:
(1) Follow the method of the gardener
Parents, in the training of your children, study the lessons that God has given in nature.
If you would train a pink, or rose, or lily, how would you do it? Ask the gardener by what process he makes every branch and leaf to flourish so beautifully, and to develop in symmetry and loveliness. He will tell you the following:
- He will tell you that it was by no rude touch, no violent effort; for this would only break the delicate stems.
- It was by little attentions, often repeated.
- He moistened the soil,
- He protected the growing plants from the fierce blasts
- He protected the growing plant from the scorching sun,
- And God caused them to flourish and to blossom into loveliness.
In dealing with your children, follow the method of the gardener. By gentle touches, by loving ministrations, seek to fashion their characters after the pattern of the character of Christ.
(2) Encourage the expression of love toward God and toward one another.
Why is it important to encourage the expression of love toward God and toward one another?
The reason why there are so many hardhearted men and women in the world is that true affection has been regarded as weakness, and has been discouraged and repressed. The better nature of these persons was stifled in childhood; and unless the light of divine love shall melt away their cold selfishness, their happiness will be forever ruined.
Therefore if we wish our children to possess the tender spirit of Jesus, and the sympathy that angels manifest for us, we must encourage the generous, loving impulses of childhood.
(3) Teach the children to see Christ in nature
Teach the children to see Christ in nature. In nature you can teach the children of God’s love and obedience to the law of God.
First, take the children out into the open air, under the noble trees, into the garden; and in all the wonderful works of creation teach them to see an expression of His love.
Second, in the open air, under the noble trees, into the garden and in all the wonderful works of creation teach the children obedience to the law of God. For example you may say to your child the following:
- That He made the laws which govern all living things,
- That He has made laws for us,
- That these laws are for our happiness and joy.
So do not weary children with long prayers and tedious exhortations, but through nature’s object lessons teach them of God’s love and obedience to the law of God.
(4) As you win their confidence in you as a follower of Christ, it will be easy to teach them of the great love wherewith He has loved us.
As you win their confidence in you as followers of Christ, it will be easy to teach them of the great love wherewith He has loved us. Angels will be by your side and God will give to both fathers and mothers grace:
- As you try to make plain the truths of salvation, and point the children to Christ as a personal Saviour, angels will be by your side.
- The Lord will give to fathers and mothers grace to interest their little ones in the precious story of the Babe of Bethlehem, who is indeed the hope of the world.